As a somatic sex coach, I support couples in finding connection, pleasure, and joy in their sex life. If you’ve been trying to rebuild intimacy and have been frustrated by the limitations of talk therapy, you’ve come to the right place. Somatic sex coaching equips couples with hands-on exercises and practical tools that turn the challeging work of reconnecting sexually into a straightforward process that’s comfortable, playful and even fun.

Somatic sex coaching weaves together practice with touch, boundaries awareness, communication, embodiment, and nervous system education, providing a safe, guided container for couples to reconnect sexually and emotionally.

A typical session might include:

  • Short meditation or movement practice to get us grounded
  • Check-ins: How have things been feeling relationally & sexually since our last session?
  • Guided touch exercise, like sensate focus
  • Boundary or communication game, like “May I / Will You”
  • Reflections and optional homework practice

I work with couples of all relationship styles, sexualities, ages, races and abilities. We can work together for as short as a single session or on a regular basis for as long as couples need to meet their goals; many couples choose to meet weekly or twice a month. I am available for both in-person sessions at my office in Northampton, and online sessions.

I love supporting my clients in relationships with goals such as:

  • enjoying more present, embodied sex together
  • awakening sexual desire, and aligning mismatched desire
  • addressing physical challenges like pain during sex, vaginismus, erectile dysfunction, and premature ejaculation
  • repairing sexual or emotional conflict
  • exploring non-monogamy, polyamory, or opening a relationship
  • closing a formerly non-monogamous, poly, or open relationship
  • exploring one’s queer, bi, or pan sexuality while partnered
  • discovering each other’s turn-ons
  • healing sexual hurt or trauma from the past
  • achieving orgasm together

My rate for relationship coaching is $225/hour. I offer sliding scale rates for clients who are queer, trans/nonbinary, people of color, and/or have a disability. Please contact me if you would like to talk about sliding scale pricing.

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